Infidelity can be incredibly painful, whether you’ve been the one who was cheated on or the one who gave in to temptation. Watching a relationship that you built together come crashing down can induce several negative emotions. But all the people who cheat aren’t evil monsters with bad intentions; they are just humans who became vulnerable to their weaknesses. And it’s way more common than we think it is. The reality is—as much as we think, “I would never...” —our loyalties aren’t shatter-proof. When it comes to a long-distance relationship, sometimes, the temptation to have a tangible romantic experience can derail you from your goals.
Many of us know of couples who weren’t able to sustain their long-distance relationship (LDR) due to various reasons. That makes several people perceive LDRs through cynicism-tinted glasses. But some couples lived continents apart and found their happy ending. So what made them work? What made them remain faithful and connected irrespective of the geographical boundaries that separated them?
What are long-distance relationships?
Long-distance relationships comprise two individuals who are, traditionally speaking, separated by geographical distance. While we love to meet people we love, especially our romantic interests, LDRs leave you with fewer opportunities for the same.
Your partner and you may be in different cities, states or different countries or continents altogether. However, the pandemic made us realise that even being in the same city but faraway locations can make you feel like you are in a long-distance relationship. With lockdowns and curfews, you may not be able to meet often. With that, it’s safe to say that the definition of LDR has expanded.
Here’s how you can stay loyal and committed in a long-distance relationship.